How to Choose the Perfect Getting Ready Set for Your Groomsmen

Let’s be real for a second: bridesmaids have been getting the full VIP treatment on wedding mornings for decades. Matching robes, personalized slippers, mimosas in cute glasses, the whole nine yards. Meanwhile, the groomsmen are usually throwing on their suits in someone’s basement, arguing about cufflinks, and hoping someone remembered deodorant.

Lately, groomsmen “getting ready sets” are becoming a thing. And honestly? It’s about time. We’re not talking about forcing your guys into silk robes (unless that’s their vibe, no judgment). We’re talking about thoughtful, practical, and yes, even Instagram-worthy sets that make the morning-of experience feel special for everyone in your wedding party. Because if your fiancé and his crew are showing up for you on the biggest day of your life, they deserve more than a “thanks bro” and a beer at 9am.

Why Groomsmen Getting Ready Sets Are Having A Moment

The wedding industry is finally catching up to what we’ve all been thinking: why should bridesmaids have all the fun? Groomsmen getting ready sets aren’t just about aesthetics (though the photos are undeniably cool!). They’re about creating that sense of camaraderie and celebration that makes wedding mornings feel electric. Think about it: your groomsmen are taking time off work, buying or renting suits, planning bachelor parties, and showing up to support your marriage. A thoughtful getting ready set says “I see you, I appreciate you, and you’re part of this story, too.” Plus, these sets are incredibly practical. You’re essentially solving the “what do we wear while we’re getting ready” problem while creating cohesive photo opportunities and giving your guys something they’ll actually use beyond the wedding day. It’s a win-win-win situation, and the grooms who are doing this are setting a new standard for wedding party appreciation, all while having fun.

Photo by Hilary Cam Photography

What Actually Goes In A Groomsmen Getting Ready Set

Sure, it’s easy to find inspiration to go into your getting ready sets for your bridesmaids, but what about for the groomsmen? The great thing about groomsmen sets is that they’re infinitely customizable based on your crew’s personality and your wedding vibe. Some ideas for your guys:

The Classic Approach:

Matching button-up shirts in a neutral color or one of your wedding colors that they can wear while getting ready and potentially keep wearing under their suit jackets. Bonus points if you add monogrammed details or a fun phrase on the pocket. Pair these with matching socks that add a pop of personality, think fun patterns, wedding date embroidery, or colors that coordinate with your wedding palette.

The Pajama Party:

Yes, we’re going there. Matching pajama sets for groomsmen are actually becoming a thing, and they’re surprisingly great. The morning-of photos in matching PJs, drinking coffee and looking hilariously coordinated? Chef’s kiss. Just make sure you choose styles that lean more “cool guy sleepwear” than “toddlers at a slumber party.”

The Loungers:

Guys are usually pretty simple when it comes to comfort. Matching joggers or comfortable pants paired with simple t-shirts or Henleys could be the move. This works especially well for destination weddings or multi-day celebrations where your guys need something comfortable for pre-wedding events.

Keeping It Simple:

If matching outfits aren’t the vibe for your guys but you still want to do something fun, focus on coordinating accessories instead. Matching baseball caps (great for outdoor or casual weddings), personalized dopp kits, leather belts, watches, or even matching sunglasses for that perfect groomsmen photo.

The key here is to choose items that feel authentic to your group. If your groomsmen are the type who live in athleisure, don’t force them into fancy robes. If they’re more about classic style, lean into that preppy button-up aesthetic.

Styling Your Groomsmen Getting Ready Photos

Half the fun of groomsmen getting ready sets is the photo opportunities they create. 

Work with your photographer to capture those candid moments: guys helping each other with ties, cracking jokes while buttoning shirts, toasting with whiskey or coffee in their matching outfits. These photos are a great way to balance out the feminine energy of bridesmaids getting ready shots and tell a fuller story of your wedding day. Choose a getting ready location that has good natural light and enough space for the guys to spread out. A cool Airbnb, a modern hotel suite, or even a well-styled garage or barn can work beautifully.

Consider adding small details that photograph well, such as personalized hangers for suits, a vintage bar car with morning beverages, cigars or boutonnieres laid out artfully, or even a poker table setup if that’s your crew’s thing. The goal isn’t to create something overly staged, but to give your photographer moments worth capturing that show the guys having fun and bonding before the ceremony.

Photo by Carson Vara

Practical Tips for Pulling This Off

Timing is everything. Order your groomsmen sets at least two months before the wedding to allow for any customization, shipping delays, or size exchanges. If you’re going the monogram route, add some extra time for personalization.

Get accurate sizes. This sounds obvious, but create a simple spreadsheet or text chain and have each groomsmen confirm their size. When in doubt, size up! No one wants to be squeezing into a too-small shirt on wedding day.

Think beyond the wedding. Consider choosing items your groomsmen will genuinely use again. The most successful getting ready sets are the ones that become favorites in their regular rotation, not things shoved in the back of a closet.

Include a personal note. Tuck a handwritten card into each set, thanking your groomsmen for being part of your big day. It’s a small touch that elevates the whole experience and reminds everyone why they’re there in the first place.

Groomsmen getting ready sets are one of those wedding trends that feels fresh and modern while actually being incredibly practical and meaningful. They create fun photo opportunities, solve the “what do we wear” question, show appreciation for your guys, and add another layer of intentionality to your wedding day. Whether you go all-in with matching outfits or keep it simple with coordinated accessories, the gesture matters.

Your groomsmen are showing up for you in a big way, so giving them a getting ready set that’s thoughtful, comfortable, and actually useful is just good karma. Plus, imagine how great those getting ready photos are going to look when both sides of your wedding party are equally styled and celebrated! That’s the kind of wedding day energy we’re all here for in 2026. So go ahead: break tradition, treat your guys right, and create those memories that’ll last way longer than any hangover from the bachelor party.

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